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Whose in Control?  

Ari_fairy

9/5/2010 8:31 pm
I got an e-mail today, telling me that I allow Carolyn to "run my life". Actually, it said that a couple times adding that she'd "screw it right up." Well okay...let's get a couple of things straight.

Carolyn has been my best friend for a lot of years. She supports me when I'm down and leans on me when she is. We hold each other up when we have to do something we don't like doing...like telling someone to get out of our lives.

I'd tell you that Carolyn is almost as soft hearted as I am. Almost.

One of the things I'm sure you recognized is that we don't keep secrets from one another. So yes...Carolyn knows what was said. In her inimical manner, her response was...

"Arreana, if I was running your life, I'd have to toss your butt in the back seat of the car cause I'd want control. Then I'd run his azz over, back up...and do it again. Problem solved."

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari
nanjinita
372 posts 

9/5/2010 10:32 pm

Ari..aiiiii, you mean you are still discussing that 'IDIOT'...ah now.So carolyn controls yer life n yer control mine when you give me sound advise..
So who really controls me now....i am confused ohhhh

Hell whatever whomever as long as i feel good n happy at the end of it...pull my strings all yer like, its fun been a puppet, no responsbilities, no worries, 'sighs'

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/5/2010 10:53 pm

I actually thought he had gone away until I got his e-mails today. I dislike when things get ugly. Why is it men think the only way to walk away...is to be hurtful and nasty? Wouldn't it just be easier to accept that I failed to respond?

Attacking my friends is a guaranteed way to make me mad...but to be honest...Carolyn's comment just tickled my funny bone. I'm kind of warped that way.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Spitfire71
15069 posts 

9/6/2010 12:44 am

no back seat you want deniability
good friends are priceless so you run
your life you choose your friends
because your your best judge

thanks for reading and as per Dave Allen "May your God go with you"

cbrstrks2008
1172 posts 

9/6/2010 2:24 am

Men, we are such delicate creatures


Standplatz und liefert

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 10:25 am

    Quoting Spitfire71:
    no back seat you want deniability
    good friends are priceless so you run
    your life you choose your friends
    because your your best judge
Hmmm...so just give Carolyn the car keys?

It's sad that you have to blame someone else...for what simply didn't work. Why prolong what can't be pleasant for anyone? Why can't people just be friends and accept that this is all there is between us? I find people...inexplicable sometimes.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 10:28 am

Temperamental I'd accept. Holy crows. I cannot believe how hard it can be to get people to hear the words you are saying.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 10:31 am

    Quoting ndpendentlady44:
    I am soft hearted! That's why I can't stand to see anybody mess with my sis.

    I think you really need to go to the doctor and see if they can do something with that Loser magnetic strip you got on your forehead.
Bite me, Carolyn. You'll note...I still managed to be nice and get my point across. More blunt than I usually am...but not mean..and not rude.

Proves my point. I don't plan to open that door again...for any reason. People find it far too easy to be dishonest and disengenuous...particularly on-line.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

4ever_fun
3748 posts 

9/6/2010 11:11 am

lmao @ loser magnetic strip......Carolyn....YOU are too funny!

Ari....the guy is using your friends because he knows that they matter to you! Can you repeat with me....the guy is a CREEPER!

Good things come to those who wait; remember to live while you do the waiting!!

~*Michelle*~

Poetdancerin
8920 posts 

9/6/2010 11:38 am

I think Carolyn is right

Am I now getting kicked into the boot by you Areanna?

Getting booted


It's better to smile and have dimples
than to frown and have wrinkles

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 1:27 pm

    Quoting 4ever_fun:
    lmao @ loser magnetic strip......Carolyn....YOU are too funny!

    Ari....the guy is using your friends because he knows that they matter to you! Can you repeat with me....the guy is a CREEPER!
You can bite me too, Chelle.

I know that. I don't need to repeat with you...I said it first when I responded to his email.

Love and hugs to you, Sis.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 1:29 pm

    Quoting Poetdancerin:
    I think Carolyn is right

    Am I now getting kicked into the boot by you Areanna?

    Getting booted

I'm a booty kicker now? lol....

Nah...I love you too much, Renee. You aren't a creepy guy who memorizes my profile so he can use my own words to interest me. Or lashes out at my friends when I say no.

It is what it is.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 1:31 pm

    Quoting ndpendentlady44:
    So... are you insinuating that I was rude and mean in my post??
    Oh well.. I never claimed to have any couth.. and sometimes you just got to take the bull by the horns.. although, I am proud that you stood up to the butthead, and it didn't take you near as long this time as it did with the last two! Kudo's to you my dear friend!
Ya know. I've had two stalkers. This one didn't go there. I learned from the last two...even if it took me forever to get mad.

I stand up to people just fine. It's trying not to be hurtful that kicks my butt. And no...you weren't rude or mean...all I was saying is that it's important to me not to hurt someone else. You were, however...WAY blunt. More so than I and I was blunt.

You're just one tough cookie...and I'm a marshmallow. Happy now?

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

debutanteBaltimr
17977 posts 

9/6/2010 2:25 pm

Carolyn is dangerous right now. She said if she was married, she would probably wind up in prison! Maybe I should send her a pic of my stepmother with a map and a handgun...

HuzatKrazyLONG -edMayne???

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 3:09 pm

    Quoting debutanteBaltimr:
    Carolyn is dangerous right now. She said if she was married, she would probably wind up in prison! Maybe I should send her a pic of my stepmother with a map and a handgun...
Lol...she's on a rampage. I could think of someone she could take care of for me as well. But...I think we have to send her money or something....travel expenses.... I'm pretty broke right now. You?

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

cbrstrks2008
1172 posts 

9/6/2010 7:25 pm

Whole lotta bitin going on round here Quick turn the other cheek


Standplatz und liefert

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 7:55 pm

    Quoting cbrstrks2008:
    Whole lotta bitin going on round here Quick turn the other cheek
And that's pretty much where it needs to be.

Good comment, Bill.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

mrsart4all
1609 posts 

9/6/2010 9:32 pm

I think Carolyn said it just right!! Go Girl! This loser doesn't need the time of day. He doesn't know you and is just wanting to leach onto your kindness. He can't stand the fact that you have MANY friends who are watching your back against scum like him. Just continue to be careful, love ya Sis!

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 10:21 pm

    Quoting mrsart4all:
    I think Carolyn said it just right!! Go Girl! This loser doesn't need the time of day. He doesn't know you and is just wanting to leach onto your kindness. He can't stand the fact that you have MANY friends who are watching your back against scum like him. Just continue to be careful, love ya Sis!
Huh....so...more protectors and controllers. I am working on being careful; I promise. You guys are always great...and what you've given...is more than appreciated.

Love you too, Sis.

Me

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/6/2010 10:22 pm

I'm thinking it's a tongie thing. Think he's trying to concede?

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

Poetdancerin
8920 posts 

9/6/2010 10:34 pm

    Quoting Ari_fairy:
    I'm thinking it's a tongie thing. Think he's trying to concede?


....

It's better to smile and have dimples
than to frown and have wrinkles

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/7/2010 3:09 pm

    Quoting ndpendentlady44:
    I got an idea.. you ought to teach Qwe-Qwe how to say "Delusional Dork Alert" that way in case any show up on your doorstep your alarm system will be in place.
That was an empty threat. And then I'd have to teach Qwe Qwe to differentiate the dorks from the "just men". lol...

It's always interesting...not always fun.

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

cbrstrks2008
1172 posts 

9/8/2010 8:12 pm

Sit and think about it lol I am sure it will come to you.... and I concede nothing Ari Well, almost nothing


Standplatz und liefert

Ari_fairy
20642 posts 

9/8/2010 8:56 pm

    Quoting cbrstrks2008:
    Sit and think about it lol I am sure it will come to you.... and I concede nothing Ari Well, almost nothing
Come on, baby....you know you want to....you know how good it's going to feel....just four tiny words....so simple, such a relief for you...so...rewarding....

Feel the passion, walk in peace, live in love....Ari

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