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What attracts you  

wanderinozzie

6/23/2006 6:07 am

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Thought that since we have such a great communication device in FF I would ask-

What is the first think that attracts you to a member of the opposite \bsexo?\b???

And I mean the very first time youlook at them and think, Mmmmm not too bad, and they attract your attention.

Now be honest. Too often we say the things that we THINK others want to hear.
Is it their personality?
Is it their voice?
Is it their physical characteristics ( looks )?
Is it the way they present themselves?
Is it their facial features?
Or is it a combination of several factors?

"Those who say it cannot be done, are quite often interrupted by those doing it!"
rainbowsanrain
2268 posts 

6/23/2006 7:27 am

 The first thing? Here or in person?

The eyes.

ruggedntenderaty
3666 posts 

6/23/2006 8:23 am

 I put the way they present themselves although it is a combination of things to an extent.. Never ever facial or brains, even personality.. Presentation or looks is all of it, not beauty, but them, the way they are.. the looks that tell the inside.. Maybe a lot the eyes as Rainbow says.. maybe?
Here by the sea.

CaptainPrincess
5732 posts 

6/23/2006 1:13 pm

 well, if u want us to give u the honest answer to the first time we see them, I guess personality couldn't be an option cuz we'd have to stare at them for a bit to get to know that, lol...I would have to say...their eyes and smile...oh, and hair, I love brown hair on a guy
Don't seek the because-in love there's no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions~Anais Nin

wanderinozzie
2047 posts 

6/24/2006 4:28 am

 Thanks for all for your input,

I have to agree with all of the comments you have made.

From my perspective looks, and not just physical looks, it goes down to the body language get the immediate attention. Whether they feel good about themselves and their surrounding all show in the way the present.

Then it goes to their behaviour, are they extroverted and over the top, or are they introverted and withdrawn, as rainbows eludes, the eyes tell it all. No matter how good of an actor they are, the eyes tell it all.

The clothes are just superficail, but it does give a big indication as to how the person perceives themself.

It takes time to analyse all this, which is why good relationships take time, both to start and to continue over a long period.

I believe that with the pressures and faster pace of modern life we dont get that time to get to know each other as well as our parents and grandparents.
"Those who say it cannot be done, are quite often interrupted by those doing it!"

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